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In honor of Father’s Day, I have chosen a few of my favorite pop-culture dads. They don’t always make fatherhood look easy, but they usually have the best intentions.

In many ways, these guys could’ve helped write Stuff Every Dad Should Know… and could also be readers who learn a little something from the book.

According to Wikipedia, an adult can achieve a blood alcohol level of .03 (or less) after consuming 1 alcoholic beverage.  Said beverage would result in mild euphoria, relaxation and joyousness with little impairment to your judgment.  After a long day, that sounds pretty good, right?  

Welcome to fatherhood!  At first glance, the adventures of New Dad sound an awful lot like the adventures of Bachelor Man:

·      Late nights with a bottle in your hand

·      Working extra hard to get her into bed

·      Explaining why it’s OK for you to spend some time apart

·      Sleepover parties with tons of girls

·      Talking about drugs and alcohol

But now all these activities have a whole new spin.  That late-night bottle is full of baby formula, not Sam Adams.  You’re luring that cutie-pie to bed by reading a story, clearing the room of monsters, and fetching “one last glass of water” before retreating to the blissful haven of your own room.  That talk about spending time apart is going to happen while your child wails in despair as you try to say good-bye and drive away on the first day of school.  The sleepover party—yeah, your job is to rent a movie that a roomful of nine-year-olds will all like.  And talking about mood-altering substances gets a lot less funny and a lot more serious when you’re the one explaining to your child why she should not use them.

It’s a whole new world, huh?  But, being a dad is life altering—for the better! A lifetime of joy awaits.  Also, a lifetime of stuff that needs doing.  Fortunately, Stuff Every Dad Should Know exists to help.

Contents of a Toddler’s Backpack, Photo by Cathy Stanley-Erickson

Memorial Day is coming up soon, so the ceremonial beginning to summer is upon us. More importantly, for anyone under 18, it means that school is almost over!

If I remember correctly, that also means that the shiny new backpack you got last fall, and the promise you made to yourself not to be disorganized this year, are both destroyed. In these last few weeks of school, we deal with a very prevalent issue from The Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook: Parenting.

Dr. Anthony DeBenedet, author of The Art of Roughhousing, gave another TEDx talk (his last one was in September 2011) at Eastern Michigan University. This time around, he talks about the benefits of being playful.

Reclaiming play as a priority in our lives can transform and perhaps even heal us in powerful and unexpected ways. Unfortunately, from the moment we leave childhood, our inner sense of play is attacked. Whether it’s in our workplaces, schools, or homes, play is thwarted by a pervasive culture of seriousness and productivity.

But what if play is just as important as genetics or personal choices when it comes to health, quality of life, and longevity? Would we set different priorities? Through science and personal anecdotes, we will explore the play-health connection. And hopefully, in the process, reawaken the playful child that lives within all of us.

Give it a watch. Nice job, Anthony!

On September 28th, 2011, Quirk author Dr Anthony DeBenedet (The Art of Roughhousing) participated in TEDxDetroit.

In his talk, The Future of Play, he speaks passionately about the importance of rough and tumble playtime, how it builds emotional intelligence, and how it can inspire creativity and imagination.

The video just hit YouTube, and you can scope it out above. Nice job, Anthony! We’re proud of you!